I liked this gal, she gave a great speech at the Street Party!!
Deb Grey's memoir of a motorcycle life

Deb Grey with her Honda Valkyrie.
Former MP speaks to Women in Motorcycling conference
Aug 22, 2009
SPECIAL TO THE STAR
This is an edited excerpt from a speech given Aug. 21, 2009, by Deborah Grey, former MP and Order of Canada recipient, to the American Motorcyclist Association's International Women and Motorcycling Conference in Keystone, Col.Her keynote was a highlight of the International Street Party, organized by the Motorcyclists Confederation of Canada.
The MCC is a national advocacy organization committed to uniting motorcyclists and to promoting, protecting and preserving motorcycling.
We are extraordinary women. In riding motorcycles, we have learned to do something that only a very small percentage of the female population has done.
So, whatever we fear, we can face it, then forget it – put it behind us, and move on.
Here's my RIDE: Relatives. Instructor. Dared to run. Exit stage right.
Relatives – My father was an alcoholic; my mother raised five kids single-handedly in Vancouver in the '60s. I spent time on my little bicycle, thinking, talking, screaming, praying, and forgiving.
I could ride it off and ride it out. My sister had a friend who took me for a ride on his motorcycle when I was 13, and I was hooked for life. This is my 42nd season of safe, trouble-free miles.
Instructor – I moved from Vancouver to north-eastern Alberta to teach at Frog Lake Reserve. Instead of being just a teacher, I became a learner, and had my Grade 4 students teach me how to fish with my bare hands. I had lots of challenges, and faced them by going for long motorcycle rides: thinking, talking, screaming, singing, praying. Whatever the fear or challenge, I could ride it off and ride it out.
Dared to run – After teaching for 10 years, a neighbour dared me to run for the new Reform Party. I was terrified; I knew nothing of politics and wondered how I had ever won. Six months later, I looked across the aisle in Parliament and wondered how they had ever won!
I learned to face my fears and deal with issues and the media directly, relying on my gut for wisdom. The most valuable lesson I learned in my political career is that "not all of your colleagues will be your friends." Learn it now and learn it well.
My bike became my safe place: thinking, talking, screaming, singing, praying. No matter what, I could ride it off and ride it out.
Exit Stage Right – After 15 years, I felt it was time for a new chapter. I faced the fear of not knowing what I could do now.
I feared it, faced it and then forgot it.
I went out at the top of my game and did not look back. I have no regrets. I have more time for riding, doing charity rides, being home with my husband. When I get scared, or frustrated, or discouraged, I ride my motorcycle: to think, to talk, to scream, to sing, to pray. I can ride it off and ride it out.
How about you? Any regrets? Quit your job if you hate it – you're not fooling anyone. Quit the toxic relationship if you have tried to make it work, but it is sucking the very life out of you. Re-connect with someone, make a call, send a card.
Somebody mentored you – now you go and mentor somebody else, whether it is riding, responsibilities, retirement or relationships. Be a bridge builder. Live your life forward so you never regret it backward.



